Too many young people choose an object for worship. A room hung with posters with photographs of an idol, calendars, backpacks, T-shirts with the image of your favorite group - this is familiar to almost every teenager. Despite the fact that at a certain age this behavior is normal, in the future fanaticism can interfere with building normal relationships and it’s great to poison life. We definitely need to get rid of it, and to do this is not as difficult as it might seem at first glance.
Instruction manual
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If you are not yet sixteen, you can just relax and have fun. Go to concerts of an adored group, watch movies with your favorite artist, find the same fans in your city and arrange parties where you can discuss your object of desire and his work. When you grow up, fanaticism will leave, and your friends will remain.
2
If you are still determined to get rid of fanaticism, try to bring yourself to an aversion to an idol. Put the songs of the group from which you are a fan into the player and listen to them constantly, watch their clips day and night without being distracted by other TV shows and films. In the end, choose a famous hit as a ringtone for your alarm clock.
3
Perform an act that you will later be ashamed to remember, to your favorite song. Dance on the table in your favorite cafe, where all the waiters know you, send a handsome guy by using a line from a song about love that you are listening to. Get off your bike and smash your knees into the blood during a great guitar loss. Make any nonsense after which this music you will no longer be associated with a pretty soloist, but with a failure that you want to forget and not remember.
4
"Love is only a face on the wall, love is a view from the screen." Fanaticism is convenient in that it is a safe love, so many teenagers go through it. No need to get the object of love - it is far and inaccessible. It is unlikely that you will ever be disappointed in him - he is talented, thinks through his interviews in advance, stylists, hairdressers and make-up artists work on his image. And all the facts that you do not know about him, you can think of yourself, having received the ideal person. But with age, there is a desire to build close relationships with a living person, and fanaticism fades into the background, leaving only admiration for creativity.
5
As already mentioned, fanaticism by the age of sixteen to twenty years usually passes. If this did not happen to you, perhaps you should understand yourself together with a psychotherapist and find out why you are so afraid of relationships with living people that you prefer to love the image.