Divorce falls on a woman like an avalanche, erasing all the colors. The world is becoming faceless. Only one question raises in my head: “Why?” and "How to live on?" First of all, we must stop perceiving divorce as a punishment and treat this stage of life as a new step on the steep ladder of life.
Instruction manual
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Get rid of negative memories. Take care of the general cleaning of the apartment. Restoring cleanliness will put things in order, and at the same time save the house from bad energy. Free the house from the accidentally left things of the former spouse. If you do not want to meet with him yet, you can send things by mail to his new address.
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Change your environment if possible. Take a couple of days to a sanatorium or just to nature. You can change the atmosphere without leaving your home. It is enough to change the wallpaper, hang new curtains or buy a new sofa. So you will begin to equip the cosiness in the house for yourself, taking into account only your interests.
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Allow yourself what was not allowed before, fearing a spouse's reaction. For example, go to a club with a girlfriend. Or buy a long-awaited translucent blouse. Or maybe he loved your long hair, and you dreamed of a short haircut - fulfill your dream.
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Sign up for a massage course or in the pool. The stress accumulated in the body will come out under the relaxing movements of the experienced hands of a massage therapist, and water will strengthen the nervous system and make your body slimmer.
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Spill irritation and fatigue with a punching bag or pillow. You can stick a photograph of your ex-spouse on them and heartily slap or kick the imaginary irritant. And then mentally forgive the offender, because there were good moments in your life together.
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Arrange for your beloved an unusual photo shoot. Invite a professional photographer to accompany you on a walk or visit a photo studio. So you can look at yourself with different eyes, evaluate the merits and outline the steps to correct deficiencies.
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Organize a bachelorette party. Before the wedding it was possible, so why not take a walk with friends after receiving a divorce certificate? The color of the document is green, as a permit sign at a traffic light. Catch freedom by the tail and enjoy it, come up with funny contests and have fun even until the morning.
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Do not be afraid to free your heart for new love adventures. It is not necessary to go into all seriousness at once, trying to forget and drown grief in the arms of others. You deserve more than casual sex with anyone. Visit a hobby club, go on a popular "blind date" (some institutions practice such dates of strangers in complete darkness, which is original in itself). And you will be convinced that the world of men did not end on the former spouse, and with the divorce the planet did not stop spinning, surprising you with its discoveries.