When a person is 16 years old, the question of devotion is very acute, as if the light converges on him like a wedge! A friend’s inappropriate laugh at someone’s joke may seem like treacherous betrayal …
Age and devotion
Indeed, at age 16, loyalty is valued more than a bag of gold. And this is understandable from the point of view of psychology. At this age, a teenager has a particularly acute desire to find friends in spirit, to become part of a social group, to express themselves, etc.
In five to ten years, the need for devotion does not diminish. A person also wants to have true friends. However, this devotion takes on a different shade. For example, it is possible that a person will not be offended because one girlfriend discussed his personal life with another, in general, there is already an understanding that this is quite common for society.
There are good friends, now it is required that the other half also abide by the framework of fidelity: do not cheat, do not flirt, do not tell left and right secrets and secrets. Devotion is the foundation of relationships. The conclusion about its value is no longer justified, but loudly collapses!