It is difficult to understand oneself, a person is multifaceted and does not always immediately find his place in life and true destiny. You can choose from a variety of suitable occupations, make sure of your well-being, or, conversely, understand what you want, what should be changed, you can not immediately, sometimes answers come with the help of leading questions.
In psychology, there is such a technique, thanks to which you can eventually understand your destiny, tastes, environment, habits and addictions, as well as much more. Experts recommend taking a whole course of such classes aimed at revealing internal qualities and personal growth.
But it is not always necessary for such a long time, you can start with the simplest questions and, having answered them, understand where to move on. Try to watch your surroundings. People find friends and loved ones for themselves, and, if they are lucky, they will be comrades in spirit who will always support and console. Well, or they’ll arrange a scandal when necessary. However, often a person clings to energy vampires - those who suggest that he is not good enough, or subordinate to themselves so much that they make them forget about the right to vote. It is better to remove such "well-wishers" from the list of friends.
Doing exactly what you want? A sincere answer may surprise you. There is a reasonable balance between “want” and “must” - such is life. But sometimes the advantage to the side should be too large, however, not everyone is capable of decisive measures, but even small nuances can be significant. Here you can solve the problem with the help of hobbies, new acquaintances, as vivid impressions will help maintain balance.
Alone with yourself should be comfortable, in this state you can evaluate yourself from the side, reflect, laugh at the events of the day, indulge in memories, etc. The ability to be in harmony with oneself is not in vain so highly valued, it speaks of self-sufficiency and confidence. Therefore, if you can’t part with a mobile phone, social networks, or even a book in moments of solitude, think about it. The ability to find harmony with your self will help you become stronger.
It is very important to understand how much you can trust yourself. As a rule, the answer is always positive, but it’s worth a little thought and a different opinion will sound: “Depending on the situation”. The inability to keep secret information often indicates self-doubt and the desire to attract increased attention. If you received just such an answer, you should work on yourself and increase your self-esteem.
No need to guess other people's ideas about you, you won’t be nice to everyone. However, to formulate the qualities that will allow in the eyes of others to look on the positive side, everyone is able to. It remains only to follow this!