You have to learn the art of love and being around for the whole time, while the feelings last. When parting, less time to think about their actions and words. Emotions overwhelm, resentment does not give a sensible look at the situation. To part with a man without becoming enemies for the rest of his life is the lot of the strong.
Choose a time for a serious conversation. Parting “fast” will not leave you a chance for a good relationship. Breaking up relations by SMS, in a telephone conversation or in an email will leave many questions. For a conversation, plan and schedule an appointment in a neutral area with no shared memories. Everything in the past - away from resentment When the decision to leave is already made, you should not waste time clarifying the relationship. Do not express resentment and complaint to each other. Forgive everything that you could not forgive so far. Everything in the past, this man now has nothing to do with you. Ask for forgiveness for your actions and words that might have been the cause of your past quarrels. Be able to forgive and thank you for all the good things that happened while you were together. Sincerely wish happiness and love to the one who was dear to you. If the initiative to part with your loved one comes from you, it is important to get rid of guilt for this act. Psychologists advise to do charity work and help those who really need it. Leaving - do not give up hope. At first, after breaking up, try not to answer calls and messages. It is possible that the cooling of feelings happened only on one side, and your friendly answers and friendly tone can give rise to hope for a renewed relationship. Do not give in to manipulations and make it clear that the decision to part is made completely. If possible, do not attend mutual friends and events where you may run into each other. In order to get used to the fact that everyone now has their own personal life, independent of each other, it takes time. When parting, do not let emotions take precedence over the mind. Do not tell the person that you are breaking up from the fact that he is to blame for all your problems. Let the cause be a banal difference in views.