From childhood, we were instilled with the laws of morality, one of which was: "Lying is bad." But is it really so?
Self-doubt does not appear out of nowhere. It is closely connected with the people around us, with their opinions and habits. That is why successful people become even more successful, and the rest feel depressed and guilty. Therefore, it is so important to monitor who we surround ourselves with.
It just so happened that a person unknowingly identifies himself with his associates. It is very easy to start falling lower and lower when you find yourself in a bad company. With this development of events, a person quickly loses the will to live, gives up and stops fighting for something important.
When you cannot find anything that could help you, in reality, the most banal lie comes to the rescue.
If you repeat every morning: “I am the most charming and attractive, ” - sooner or later you will believe in it and really will become like that. Of course, you can’t do with repetitions alone, it’s also important to back up words with actions: to communicate with people, go out somewhere, generally behave more friendly. But the result will not be long in coming, and very soon, thanks to such simple actions, you will turn into a charismatic pleasant person.
If your surroundings instilled a negative lie in you, nothing prevents you from using the positive equivalent. Patience and efforts to cultivate the seeds of self-confidence will bear fruit very soon, and you will become much happier and more successful.