Love is a very vivid feeling that happens in everyone’s life. But sometimes it accompanies a person all his life, and sometimes it passes without a trace. Scientists have long been trying to find out the cause of these emotions, understand the mechanism of occurrence.
Today, many psychologists divide love into several components: love, passion or true love. The first occurs in youth, it is characterized by vivid impressions, may not carry physical manifestations, an idealization of the partner, his qualities takes place. Passion is more associated with sexual attraction, it is based on tactile contacts, the couple wants to be in each other's arms. This is a more mature feeling, but it may also disappear. Love, on the other hand, is the interaction of people, which becomes stronger every year, transforms and deepens. Love is an attachment not only to an image, but an emotional connection with a real person.
Love is chemistry
When people meet, a chemical process occurs that triggers love. A certain type, the smell of a person can provoke this process. If it is supported, stimulated, it will increase. So there is passion and love, but they are the initial stage of true love. First, the physical body enters the matter, then the brain intervenes, the analysis of a person can allow you to continue the relationship or reduce everything to an end.
In the first few months it is very difficult to control the sensations of the body. There is not only a desire to be close to a partner, but also ease, the desire to do something, to achieve something. The emotional background is enhanced, things add up easily and simply. This state of lovers can last several years. It is especially strong when the couple cannot see each day, they manage to get bored, which pumps a general surge of energy.
Love and passion allow you to close your eyes to many of the shortcomings of man. When these feelings are present, the voice of reason is almost inaudible. There are "pink glasses" that help people find harmony in everyday life, build relationships. But gradually it passes, and the truth is revealed.