When to start raising your child? Many people ask this question when becoming parents, but not everyone thinks about raising and developing a child during pregnancy. However, prenatal education is an important part of the foundation for the nature of your child.
Remember that even when the fetus does not yet have hearing and vision, even before the development of the brain and the first heartbeat, everything you do, think and feel, affects the future baby. Your reaction to pregnancy, the reaction of your partner, friends, relatives, the situation in the family, health status and lifestyle - everything is somehow transferred to your child.
With proper nutrition and bad habits, everything is clear, but how can he feel the love or dislike of others? Through your emotions. If you are sad, if you are frightened or upset, your breathing and heart rate change, there are many changes that are invisible to you in the work of your body, which significantly affect the course of pregnancy. Do not rush to tear the hair on your head for a quarrel with your husband or short-term stress at work. We do not live in an artificial world, and it is not possible to create ideal conditions for a cloudless pregnancy. Moreover, hormonal adjustment makes us more vulnerable to all sorts of troubles. You are required to reduce the sources of irritation and sadness, fill your life with pleasant impressions and not concentrate not to focus on the problems that arise. Do not eradicate! And minimize it. Setting feasible tasks will help you with this.
Love your baby right now. Even if just a few minutes ago you found two stripes on a pregnancy test. Talk, talk about the world in which you live, find objects for admiration and share them. Stroke yourself on the tummy and attract the future dad to communicate.
Create yourself a filter for incoming information. Limit viewing news, action films, horror films, choose the most pleasant interlocutors for walks and communication.
Do not panic over test results. Before succumbing to discouragement, consult with several specialists, retake the blood again. Very often, doctors scare pregnant women with their assumptions and far-fetched diagnoses. If there is an opportunity to change the gynecologist to a more delicate one, do not miss it.
Your activities and hobbies also affect the development of the child. You can read fairy tales out loud, draw, attend exhibitions, sing, or even develop your ability to learn a foreign language. Parents who speak several languages during pregnancy note that their children showed interest and the ability to learn them.
Of particular note is the influence of music on prenatal education. During pregnancy, give preference to the classics. At the end of the second trimester, your baby will already tell you what he does not like and what he liked. This can be determined by his movements. Shocks indicate discontent, and smooth movements indicate that he is pleased.
Talk with your loved ones, share ideas for fetal development and ask for support and understanding. Many agree that you need to be softer in dealing with pregnant women, but some people should be reminded of this. Do not be offended if you do not get "due" attention. Everyone has their own problems and concerns, try to understand and treat yourself to something pleasant.
Pregnancy, despite all the difficulties and physical discomfort, an unusual period of unity with your baby. You feel his movements, and it gives you joy. This cannot be compared to anything. The extraordinary mystery of the birth of a new life even after the invention of ultrasound and the development of science excites us. Pregnancy is just the beginning of a long journey of becoming your baby’s personality. Try to make the first nine months of your baby happy and calm and continue in the same direction after his birth.