In childhood, mom is the most important person in life. She comforts, cares, feeds, heals, does everything for the child. As adults, many expect the same support. But mothers, having raised children, are not always ready to fully surrender to matured sons and daughters.
Instruction manual
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Without a mother - a person who gives warmth and care, you can find yourself not only if she dies. Many mothers, especially in recent years, are consciously eliminated from the lives of adult children. They are engaged in themselves, not interested in sons and daughters. Such women believe that they have fully paid off the children by raising them. And they are not going to support them in adulthood.
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If for some reason your mother is not around, and you are bored and looking for a “strong shoulder”, contact your friends for help. Very often people are ready to provide moral and material support, you just have to ask about it. Tell your friends that you are lonely and want someone close to you. They will definitely support you and provide all possible assistance.
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Try to understand why it’s hard for you without mom. What feelings and emotions are missing for you. Often discomfort without parents is experienced by those who are used to being a child, can not get rid of infantility. It seems to such people that all their failures are because there is no mother nearby who will say what and how to do. This is not true. Wise advice is, of course, good. But it’s high time to start thinking with your own head and take responsibility for actions. As soon as it comes to the realization that you are an adult and independent - everything will begin to turn out without anyone's direction.
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If you do not have enough mom, the person to whom you are accustomed to give your warmth - find another object for care. If you do not have children and a lover yet - get a pet. Better a cat or a dog. These animals are quite responsive, and will happily accept your affection. In addition, they will rejoice at your arrival home and worry if they catch your bad mood. They are able to temporarily replace a loved one, give you time to get used to a new state.