Words are definitely a tool. And with skillful use, you can achieve anything. By talking you can solve most of the problems, and the most wonderful thing is that they can be avoided at all.
Whatever you talk with the person, interest in the interlocutor will be one of the main outcomes. If you, say, just met and you are extremely attractive, you don’t need to attract him with contrived “coolness”, be yourself - that’s the truth.
Sincerity is what attracts. Do not be afraid to open up. Many can say that you cannot be open with everyone, because betrayal is everywhere. Even so, but then it’s not far from suspiciousness. There are conspiracies everywhere, but the communication of loved ones is much more important than general mistrust.
Do not be afraid to get to know a person, we often find a soul mate in those who are ready to listen to us and support us. Attractiveness is a very complex issue. But this is how a person works, and in order to understand and accept others, you need to understand yourself.
In many ways, interest depends on the perception of oneself. We are our thoughts. No need to be too critical of yourself. Man is a reservoir, and with what it will be filled, you decide. Take an interest and be interesting.
The recipe is very simple, be open, sincere and always remember: it is human nature to change opinions and decisions. You need to understand that all actions have something that made them do just that.