Sometimes you may get the feeling that the life you could live in is passing by. One has only to get together, see all the chances that fate gives you, determine your goals and take up your mind as your standard of living rises.
Instruction manual
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Think about what you want to achieve in life. Focus on your own desires and preferences, and not on what society dictates to you. Perhaps your lack of initiative up to this point was the result of setting false goals. Your subconscious mind did not accept them, and without motivation you had no incentive to act.
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Deal with your laziness. Get rid of the habit of putting off important things for tomorrow and going to do something for a long time. Act, and not talk about your desires and aspirations. Keep in mind that the human brain is designed in such a way that it perceives desires, for the realization of which you have not taken a single, even the smallest step in three days, as empty dreams. Therefore, the subconscious mind does not help you achieve certain goals.
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Believe in success. Without self-confidence, it will be difficult for you to act effectively. Set real, feasible tasks. You, like no one, know your abilities and talents. Plan your actions in proportion to them, and you will be calm for the result.
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Realize all the responsibility that you bear for your life. In success and failure, you play the most important role. Once you understand that it is your thoughts and actions that determine the level of your well-being and how interesting and eventful your life will be, you will have more incentive to work on yourself and improve aspects of your existence.
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Do not consider work to achieve any goal exclusively as hard work. It is also a fascinating process during which you grow, develop and transcend yourself. When you love to learn and develop plans, how to achieve what you want, then everything will turn out quicker and easier.
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Be patient. Some people are chilled by the lack of quick results. Be realistic and don't expect a miracle. Then you will not be disappointed ahead of time and do not give up at the moment when a small step separates you from success.
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Evolve. Look at the pace with which modern technology is advancing, how the vocabulary is growing, how much richer people have become spiritually and how easy it is to get any information through the Internet, all kinds of training courses or from books. Do not miss any opportunity to become smarter, more educated, more informed. Cultivate useful curiosity in yourself. Do not be indifferent to what is happening around you.
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Analyze what prevents you from becoming the person you want to be in your current lifestyle. Ruthlessly throw away from your daily routine such time absorbers as useless sitting in front of a TV or computer monitor, too frequent gatherings in cafes and bars, talking with people who do not contribute to your development and do not even give positive emotions.