Shy and indecisive people are usually passive and shy. Shyness prevents them from fulfilling their dreams, achieving success in their careers and personal lives. The life of a timid person is boring and full of routine. But it can be made interesting if you become a little bolder.
You will need
daily planner
Instruction manual
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Think about what you would do if you were a little bolder and more determined. What dreams would you bring to life? Record all your unrealized plans in a diary. For each case, select a date when it can be completed. List all the reasons why you cannot do this. And write down how you can eliminate all the circumstances and reasons that hinder the realization of a dream. Try to eliminate the causes gradually in order to achieve the goal.
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Try changing your image. Change of hairstyle, clothes, communication style will entail a change in your attitude. You will change as a person. This on a subconscious level will make you become bolder.
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Think about why you are afraid of everything. You are probably afraid to be ridiculed, to lose your importance in case of embarrassment. This is the main reason for shyness. But after a day, no one will remember your action. People are more interested in their own problems. Do not think about what others will think about you.
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Learn to be sociable. Feel free to talk to strangers, tell them something. This will allow you to become more open in terms of communication and gain confidence in yourself. Gradually, it will become a habit.
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Become a risky person. Do something you have never thought of before. For example, take a ride on a roller coaster, take a parachute jump. Make new friends, visit new places for you. Every day, discover something new and interesting. A series of bold actions will capture you, and you will not want to return to your former life.
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Watch the brave people. See how they solve their problems, how they behave. Think about how they would solve your problems, what methods they would use. See how brave people talk and speak. In a difficult situation, imagine that a specific brave person is in your place and act like him.
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Think every morning about what you have achieved, how many obstacles you have already overcome. Inspire yourself that self-confidence is growing day by day. And remember that "the courage of the city takes."
note
Do not show excessive and unnecessary courage. This can do a disservice.
Useful advice
Try to show courage where no one knows you.