It is very difficult to express condolences when a familiar person loses someone close to him. The biggest mistake that many make is not to show any sympathy, suggesting that a funeral is too personal. However, this is a fallacy, and therefore condolences must be expressed. No matter how difficult it may be.
You will need
- - beat
- - sympathy
Instruction manual
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If you want to express condolences to someone you see every day, such as a work colleague, go up to him as quickly as possible and say something straightforward, for example, “What happened is terrible. Please let me know if I I can help you with something. " This is simple and to the point.
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If you were close to a person who needs to express condolences, you can write a letter to his whole family, in which it is possible, for example, to tell your favorite story related to the departed. When people grieve, they feel a little better, learning how much they care about others.
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Try to figure out how you can help the mourner (this depends on how close you are). You can offer to cook dinner or help with house cleaning. But do it if you really want to be useful in this difficult time.
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The best way to express condolences is to attend a funeral (and subsequently - to commemorate and meet a week and a month after the funeral). Mourners will appreciate the fact that you came to support them.