Not everyone can be friends, because for this you need to be able to rejoice in other people's successes, help in difficult situations, and once be a "vest". But quantity does not mean quality. And it is precisely the turning points in life that show who a true friend is.
Instruction manual
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If you think about strengthening your friendship, then this person is worth it to be called a true friend. But if your relationship is constantly overshadowed by misunderstandings and quarrels, begin to understand their causes. Each person at a subconscious level always feels how they are treated. Even if a friend just tries to be good, sooner or later the truth will come out.
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Always remember that in real friendship you should not count how much you have given and received. This is, of course, not about money. At the heart of any friendship is trust. Those. if a comrade entrusted you with his innermost secrets, especially of a personal nature, under no circumstances should you share this information with other people. This is a taboo. Do not betray a person, much less laugh at him, after which he simply will never trust you with anything. And, possibly, he will cease all relations with you. So think a hundred times before discussing his secrets with someone.
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Take care of your friendship, find common interests, have fun together. Nothing strengthens friendship better than unanimity or, for example, common hatred. As you know, a common goal brings people together. Find out better your friend’s hobbies, most likely, you will easily find something interesting for yourself and also get carried away.
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A friend is known not only in trouble, but also in joy. Sincerely rejoice at the successes and achievements of your friends, eliminate jealousy. An envious person can never become a true companion, it just contradicts the concept of friendship. Agree that it is very nice to see and feel the sincere joy of a friend for you.
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Nobody is perfect, therefore, knowing the bad traits of your friend, leave it to yourself, do not discuss, especially do not try to reeducate him. Do not throw in trouble, even if you do not agree with his position. All this is relevant only in the case of a truly worthy and friendly attitude towards you.