Modern psychologists say that the life of another person can be changed in two ways. The first is a direct intervention in existence, the second is changing oneself, which is sure to affect the environment.
Instruction manual
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Changing the life of any person is difficult, for this you need the desire of someone you want to help. If he himself cannot accept any kind of support, everything will be useless. Only those who are looking for a way out are willing to lend a helping hand. Do not waste your efforts if a person does not intend to change something, if everything suits him. There are people who are better off living in negative circumstances, constantly complaining, but do not make any efforts. They shift responsibility to others, and believe that someone is to blame for their disorder.
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You need help when someone is looking for an opportunity, when he accepts attempts to change something. For example, a person in search of work, he goes for interviews, sends out resumes, he is interested in a good place, but so far there is no suitable one. If it is in your power, help him find the right job. But here it is important that the person himself began the changes, he decided to fix everything, and you only pushed him, and did not do everything for him.
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You can help a person with the help of motivation. Make him believe that he has a chance that everything will work out. Indeed, many do not go forward because of disbelief in themselves. If you regularly encourage him, throw up worthwhile ideas, this will bear fruit. You seem to plant seeds, and he himself will germinate them and begin to improve life. This can be done in the family, throwing ideas to the husband or child, he will take them for his own and begin to implement everything.
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By changing yourself, you can help a person. Very often, relatives do not behave correctly in order to take revenge on one of the relatives. We can say that some things are committed "to evil." A husband may not be affectionate because of resentment; a son may be rude because he does not find understanding. To change them, take a look at yourself. If these are very close people, then the matter may be in you. It is worth seeing your mistakes, changing behavior, and loved ones will also begin to transform.
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Money can change the life of any person. Help option - payment of bills, debts. But just giving money is not worth it, because an unsettled person simply does not know how to handle it. If a person gets into difficult situations constantly, then he does not know the basics of survival. And then it is better to teach him how to earn income than just give cash. He will spend it quickly, and cannot be realized without knowledge.
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Man's love changes anyone. If you constantly talk about love, if you are sincere, support, then life changes. Bright feelings help to make the space brighter, make adjustments. And when love appears, the person himself begins to strive for development. But it is important not to love for something, not to demand something in return. Learn to give love for free, and this will change the lives of everyone nearby.