Someone cannot gather courage and leave their domicile, divorce their unloved husband or change jobs. And for someone to get up at the call of the alarm clock is a serious problem. We deal with big and small decisions every day. How can one get courage when the soul craves changes, but fears and doubts do not allow to fulfill what is desired?
Instruction manual
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Love the change. Everything flows, everything changes. People who can’t get used to it are in constant stress. If nothing is done, this does not mean that everything around will remain unchanged. Everything will change, but only without your will and far from the way you would like. Therefore, it is better to pack up your courage and go on to action yourself than to let circumstances carry you along.
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Imagine the worst consequences of a decision. Now think about whether they are so scary. Perhaps the game is really “not worth the candle”, and this decision is not necessary at all. But often people exaggerate the danger of their actions and are unnecessarily nervous. For example, if you do not like living in a new city, this is not the end of the world, because you can always come back.
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Now think about what good you can expect if you are brave enough and make a decision. For example, in the event of a move, a change of scenery will immediately bring to life fresh impressions, interesting people, new opportunities. Visualize pictures of a happy future. A person’s consciousness forms the reality surrounding him, and if you really want something, sooner or later it will come true. Believe in success!
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Recognize your fears. Work on getting rid of them. A man who can’t get the courage to do anything is tormented by inner fears. Not daring to confess his love, he is afraid to be ridiculed. Staying at a long boring work, he is afraid that he will not be appreciated in a new place. Fearing failure, does not dare to open his own business. But, according to Milorad Pavic, the right direction is where your fear grows. If you can’t get the courage in any way, this indicates an internal weakness that needs to be worked on. Improve self-esteem, improve your professional and personal qualities, get rid of unnecessary attachments.
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Listen to intuition. Obeying logic, a person begins to weigh all the pros and cons. Of course, to reason logically is good, but this process often leads a person into a dead end. If you think carefully, you can find all the new pros and cons, which as a result will be
.equally. And this only prevents the courage and start to act. Listen to yourself and try to understand if you really want something to happen that you cannot decide on. Do you personally like your plan or are you close to this, your society, or stereotypes? Stay alone with yourself in some quiet place and listen to your inner voice. Intuitively, a person knows what he wants, but the restless work of the brain often leads to unnecessary doubts and indecision.
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Do not be afraid to make a mistake. The shocking genius of Dali claimed that there was “something from God” in error. Be creative, optimistic. Wrong to make a decision? This is a chance to be smart in order to rectify the situation, gain experience, and discover something new. In the end, there are no bad and good decisions, and it all depends on the attitude towards them.
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