One day in the early morning you woke up and realized that you want to change your life. Everything that you do, with whom you communicate, how you live, does not suit you at all, you want to live a completely different interesting and eventful life. But changing the established way of life is not so easy, because any changes cause fear and confusion before the unknown. There is nothing wrong with that, but to overcome the internal fears that impede change, you will have to show serious willpower, but the result is worth it. After all, the only way you can change your life.
You will need
Willpower, self-confidence, patience and desire.
Instruction manual
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If you want to dramatically change your life, start doing what you never did. Change the daily routine, do not go in for sports, get involved, would like to walk around the city for a long time, take a walk. Stop putting off what you have in mind. Do not like classical music, go to the philharmonic or watch the channel "Culture". Fill your life with new impressions, and maybe what you didn’t like will become your new hobby or, on the contrary, will tell you that not everything is so bad in your life, you just got a little bored.
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In general, for changes to bring positive changes, first understand what exactly you want to change in life. To do this, select a few hours when no one bothers you to be alone with yourself. It can be a walk with your beloved dog or a pleasant pastime in nature, after all, at home you can always find the opportunity to hide from everyone. Left alone, allow yourself to understand what is happening inside you. Try to understand what exactly you are not comfortable with in life, what you want to get rid of. Listen to the thoughts that arise in your head.
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Write down on a piece of paper in priority order what needs to be changed. Next to each item, write what you need and if you have it. If you want to start your own business, draw up a business plan, determine the amount of initial capital and think about where you can get it. Look for ways to get started without the right amount. If you are engaged in knitting and would like to sell your products, then you can use to start selling your products through social networks and online stores. As soon as the necessary amount is collected, you can open your own store. In other words, plan how you can fulfill your desire, however incredible it may be.
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From today, start to save from earned funds at least 5% not for a "rainy day", but rather for development. Having money will give you confidence in making any decisions that may affect not only you, but also those who are nearby. And in any case, you will no longer depend on others.
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Do not work, do your job search. An adult is required to provide for himself. Do not immediately strive to get a well-paid job, without experience it is impossible. But there are always professions that will give you the opportunity to grow up the career ladder. Choose an interesting field of activity for yourself and who knows, maybe in it you will become real professionals. Attending an interview will be a real challenge for you and will bring a wide variety of emotions to your life.
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Sign up for a foreign language course. Knowledge of English, Chinese or German will not only increase your chances of a career, but also help to improve and preserve your memory for many years. Learn programming, the art of photography, start writing books or drawing, look for yourself. The main thing is to do what you never thought about before. Or, on the contrary, they have long dreamed, but could not.
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And if you really want to find love, start walking where there are always a lot of representatives of the opposite sex. Think about what kind of person you want to see next to you and go to where he definitely happens. Increase your chances, the more people will surround you, the sooner you will meet your love.
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So that changes in life do not bring problems, it is best, having decided what you specifically want to change, immediately find ways to deal with possible difficulties. If you decide to find another job, take care of the availability of funds for the period of searching for a new job, especially if you have loans. If you plan to move to another city, leave your new phone number close. And once in a new place, be careful, do not trust strangers and do not fall into the clutches of scammers, especially when renting a house.
note
Do not rush to despair if, due to existing obligations, you are unable to quit your job right now, move to another city, go to study wherever you want, or open your own business. If you dedicate every day to future changes, your life will already begin to change, and very soon you will be able to realize your dream. Save money, learn a foreign language, study the business field in which you want to open your own business, draw paintings, write books or take photographs, in other words, hone your skills so that in a few months you can declare yourself, for example, as a new artist, businessman or writers.
Useful advice
But be prepared to confront yourself. As soon as you want to change something in life, fear will immediately arise within you. Subconsciously, the psyche of a person avoids any changes, because it forces her to leave her usual comfort zone and get used to new events and lifestyle. Immediately think about the good and remember that you have foreseen everything and, in the end, it is unbearable for you to continue to live the way you live now. Gradually, fear will recede. Be patient and remember that it is you who control your life and no one else. Do not let fear get the better of you.