With humiliation, that is, with an insult to human dignity - alas, almost anyone can face it. It is expressed, as a rule, either in the form of frankly rude, on the verge of rudeness, nit-picking, claims, or in the form of maliciously insulting ridicule, "jokes." In some cases, it may be accompanied by physical violence or attempts to use it. So what to do if you are humiliated?
Instruction manual
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Even for a "pachyderm" person it is not so easy to bear humiliation. What can we say about sensitive people who react painfully even to the slightest injustice or impoliteness! For them, this is a real torture, which can lead to very sad consequences, such as nervous or heart diseases. In especially severe cases, it even comes to attempting suicide. No wonder the criminal law contains an article: “Bringing to Suicide”.
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If we are talking about a schoolboy, whom classmates pester, made “a whipping boy” - this is a very difficult case. First, children are often unknowingly violent simply because of their age and lack of life experience. Secondly, it is extremely difficult to bring juvenile hooligans to justice.
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Sometimes this method can help: find the "weak spot" of the most active offender, and make a laughing stock - in order to poison and humiliate him already began. In the worst case scenario, your child will have to fight: alas, there are kids who don’t understand another language. But, as a rule, it is better to transfer the child to another school.
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If humiliation comes from a tyrant boss, try not to succumb to provocations. Refrain from retaliatory harshness, insults. After all, this is exactly what he expects from you! By this you not only show that his efforts are achieving the goal, but also give him a reason for new nit-picking, and maybe for your dismissal. Learn: for such boors, the worst thing is if they get ice politeness in response. Try also after each of his "collisions" to demand an answer: what exactly about the work you did wrong, what were wrong. Remember that the phrase "Well, I do not like you, I do not like!" has no legal force.
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Well, if one of your loved ones humiliates you. Say, the mother-in-law loves to "wind the soul" to her daughter-in-law, or her mother-in-law to her son-in-law. Politely, but firmly, make it clear that from now on do not tolerate this. It doesn’t reach - for a while, demonstratively terminate all relations. Do not go to their house and do not take it yourself, ignore calls. This usually works quickly!