Unfortunately, often people have to hear a lie: frank or disguised. Sometimes strangers lie, sometimes those with whom they are hardly familiar. The most painful thing is when a loved one deceives. Knowing a few facts about how you can recognize a lie, the number of frauds in your address will be minimized.
Instruction manual
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Pay attention to how the person speaks. The speech of one who deceives can be saturated with a huge number of facts that are not directly related to the topic of conversation. With meaningless details, they want to make you believe what is being said.
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If a person repeats your question before answering, this indicates that he wants to buy time. He needs it in order to come up with a “plausible” answer to the question asked.
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Constant joking, consider instead of a direct answer, as an attempt to hide reliable information and unwillingness to tell you the truth.
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Pay attention to how the voice sounds. Usually in people who cheat, it sounds higher and louder than usual, and speech is accelerated. The body itself can also tell a lot. The one who lies has his arms and legs crossed by themselves. Most often this is not a controlled phenomenon. A person who cheats has practically no gestures. He keeps her in check. Starting to gesticulate, it will be difficult for him to continue to lie.
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In a person who cheats, emotions appear with a certain delay. This is due to the fact that he is focused on his own and only superficially monitors the conversation.
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Suspecting a person in a lie, look at him directly at point blank range and firmly state that you doubt the sincerity of what was said. Or ironically respond to what you hear and try to interrupt the dialogue several times with unexpected questions. Such actions will help to understand the sincerity of a person, and you can more confidently identify the fact of lies.
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Another distinctive sign of a deceiving person is expressed in the fact that when talking with you, he too often touches his nose or face. Also, frequent coughing, looking to the side, indicates a fraud. A person feels restless, deceiving you. And so he tries to take his hands and pass the time to figure out how to do this more believable.
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A deceiving woman fusses very much, all the time straightens her clothes and shakes off dust particles that are visible only to her. Unexpectedly, in the middle of a conversation, she can begin to preen, adjusting her hair or makeup.
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When a man deceives, he can scratch his nose, touch his face all the time, open his mouth, or, on the contrary, tightly compress his lips. Excitement and tension are felt in the speech, the tone of the voice can change dramatically for no apparent reason. Often a deceiving man stomps on the spot, or makes some backward movements, as if trying to hide.
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