The best friend is your support and support in any life situations. Therefore, a quarrel with her knocks the ground under her feet: your mood deteriorates, and you cannot calm down until the long-awaited reconciliation occurs, for the onset of which efforts must be made.
Instruction manual
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Analyze the quarrel and try to understand what caused the disagreement. If the reason is trifling, for example, you or she had a bad mood due to problems at work, and the accumulated negativity fell upon her best friend, then you can easily make peace in a couple of days. The situation is more complicated when you disagree, strongly quarrel or quarrel over a man - you will have to try to resolve the contradictions, and this can take more than one week.
2
Give each other time to cool off after a fight. When both of you are on emotions, an attempt at reconciliation can lead to even greater quarrel, so leave your friend alone so that she and you can think about an unpleasant incident, understand your guilt and realize that you want to continue friendship. But do not delay - do not wait for the first step from her, do it yourself, otherwise the quarrel may drag on for a long time. Do not focus on who is right, because if you love her, then guilt should not be a determining factor.
3
Call, send an SMS message, write to an e-mail address or on a social network 2-3 days after an easy argument. Both of you will calm down by then and want to renew the relationship, so it will not matter who the first to say: "I'm sorry." If you can stop by, then this is the best option, because the joy of reconciliation in a personal meeting will be much stronger than on the phone and, especially, on the Internet or SMS.
4
Ask forgiveness if you are to blame for a serious disagreement. Find the right words to convince your friend of sincere repentance and desire to make peace. Explain why you did wrong, show that you acknowledge your guilt, and assure your best friend that you will never make the same mistake. It is better to talk in person in person 7-10 days after an argument. If a friend sees that you really understand your wrong actions, then she will gladly go to reconciliation, because you are her native person.
5
If your best friend is to blame for a strong quarrel, then act on the situation: it is logical to assume that she should apologize, and you can wait until she wants to make peace. But you know your girlfriend better than anyone, so if you understand that pride will not allow her to take the first step, then make contact yourself, because you have a relationship with her, and even anger does not stop you from thinking about your best friend, knowing that she just can’t step over itself.
note
Even the best friendship sometimes ends, because far from everything can be forgiven, so treat with understanding if a friend does not want to renew the relationship. If you yourself came to this conclusion, it will be right to inform your ex-girlfriend about this.
Useful advice
A surprise quarrel can smooth out a strong quarrel: give your friend something pleasant, such as chocolate or lipstick, and there will be no trace of bad memories.