First dates, kisses, midnight conversations - with which quivering feelings the time is filled when the relationship is just beginning. It seems natural to spend every free minute with the chosen one, and the rest of the time to think only about him. Over the years, the beloved man becomes almost native, but
something is missing. There is no past passion, romance is replaced by routine, and conversations are limited to everyday topics. How to return the relationship to its former "spark"?
Instruction manual
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Remember how you were when you met your husband? Most likely, a young carefree girl, generous with smiles and praise. This is the girl your husband loved. Analyze your behavior today. Maybe you lack coquetry? Try to add a little playfulness to your behavior. Make jokes more, curse less because of household trifles.
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Most men are visuals, so it is very important for them that the woman next to her is well-groomed and beautiful. But, unfortunately, women often save on themselves, preferring to spend money on family needs. If you did the same before, then it's time to put your wardrobe and appearance in order. Sign up to the gym to tone your muscles or lose extra pounds. Browse through fashion magazines, try on a few looks, and go shopping. If you prefer a sporty style in clothes, then you should try wearing more feminine outfits - dresses, skirts, light blouses and tops. And, of course, get a pair of sets of lace underwear. Such a transformation will not go unnoticed!
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There are topics that are best discussed with friends, but not with a man. This is especially true for shopping, gossip, popular reality shows, as well as female physiology. Try to talk less and listen more. But you should not bombard a man with questions. Just don’t interrupt when he starts talking, and show interest. Use active listening techniques: nodding, cheers, smiles. But it is better to avoid negative assessments and generalizations, look for an occasion to praise a loved one, and not to hurt.
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Stop trying to change your partner. Once you fell in love with him with all the shortcomings, so attempts to remake a man "for himself" are at least unfair. In addition, the manipulations that have to be resorted to when trying to train an adult do not paint a woman at all. Better often recall his merits and talents.
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A common female mistake is to completely dissolve in the family and give up your favorite hobby. Remember what you were fond of before? Embroidery, knitting, skiing - the main thing is that you like it. A passionate person is in constant development, looks positively at life, so it is much more interesting to communicate with him.