Expressions like "revenge on all with one broom" or "all under one comb" did not appear by chance. Most people tend to measure the surrounding people with the same measure, without going into particularly specific details - character traits and individual personality characteristics.
Instruction manual
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In order to treat all people differently, you need to realize that everyone around you does not have to be like you in appearance, character, personal qualities, judgments and moral character. Only a narrow-minded person can think that there are two types of opinions - his own and wrong. This is not true. Everyone has the right to individuality. Each is unique and has a unique set of various features of appearance and character. Therefore, one should not be surprised that someone smokes while you hate the smell of tobacco smoke, and someone cheats when you profess monogamy. Absolutely identical people do not exist - take this for granted.
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A person is formed not only by himself, but also by the society around him. If a teenager is rude to parents and all other adults, this does not mean that he was born that way or wanted to become conscious, displaying in this way a peculiar protest to society. But what if he just got into a bad company, which denies the majority of moral principles accepted in society, and his parents were too busy making money and did not have time to influence him, as a result of which such behavior was firmly rooted in his fragile consciousness? A person is not always to blame for the fact that he behaves "not like everyone else."
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A person’s personal life is controlled only by him and in a civilized society cannot be discussed or criticized from the outside. The moral principles and moral values of an individual person are purely his own business and does not concern anyone how, when, and with whom the person entered into a relationship, had sexual intercourse, or betrayed change. Leave the condemnation and criticism to yourself - this is a manifestation of bad taste and nothing more.