Perhaps you would like to know what happens to relationships that last for a long time without vivid signs that a man really loves you. You would like the future development of your relationship, but you are not sure of his feelings for you. For some time you believe that he loves, at some point you doubt it.
Instruction manual
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A man can deceive in words, but his eyes will not deceive him. If he loves you, this is reflected in his gaze. You just look into his eyes and read love and tenderness in them. The only “but”: you need not to confuse a loving look with the look of a man with passion. Because hobby (love) and love are not the same thing. The gaze of a loving man warms you with its warmth, while the gaze of a man in love burns you. His eyes sparkle, as if devouring you. Love is warm, passion is fire. Therefore, passion (love) quickly burns out, leaving nothing but ashes and pleasant memories. It is even easier to determine by the look of a man who is indifferent or chilled to you. He avoids looking at you, and in his eyes you will not find warmth and tenderness. Nothing but the cold.
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According to the words, it is difficult to determine if a man really loves you. The fiery words of a man in love with passion can easily be mistaken for love. Therefore, women who believe only words are often burned. When a man assures his love and says that he cannot live without you, he cannot be convicted of lies. Because he can be in love and sincerely believe in it himself. Or just knows how to speak beautifully. This is especially true for the Don Juan, who know perfectly well that "a woman loves with her ears." But if so, you will feel false. Therefore, you need to trust your feelings more than words. If you are talking about your love, and he is silent, this is not necessarily a sign that he does not love you. Or maybe he just does not know how to convey love in words. But it expresses love in actions and in deed, takes care of you. Or he believes that talking about love and being tender is a weakness. This is especially true for macho men.
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He wants to be with you more often and he likes to spend time together. Although, of course, this does not mean that he will cease to communicate with his friends. But still, he finds a reason to go somewhere together, and in public he tries to be near you. He likes your communication, and your opinion is important to him. However, even loving couples have periods when they get tired of each other's company. Especially when they became isolated in the narrow world of their relationship. Therefore, do not blame the man that he devotes a lot of time to friends or hobbies, or just wants to be alone a little. Both of you should have some kind of personal space, this is the best way not to get tired of each other.
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He is not indifferent to the people you love - parents, friends, and he tries to find a common language with them. He introduces you to his friends. But an even more sure sign that he loves you is if you are a divorced woman or a single mother, and he loves your child. Because the child is a part of you. If he seeks to meet only together, perceives the child as a burden, pretends that he does not exist, or he cools down to you when he learns about the child - this is a sure sign that he really does not like.
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He plans your future together. If he behaves as if you were each on your own (just met and fled), it does not look serious. Unless, of course, you have been dating for quite some time. Although it must be said, family is not the only form of relationship. It happens that he and she meet, not living together and living each his own life. The question is whether this suits you and whether you will be satisfied with such a relationship in ten years. Separately, we can say about extramarital affairs, when a woman is a lover. If he promises to get a divorce and marry you, but does not take any steps, there is no need to deceive himself. He is comfortable in such a situation, you are wasting your time. And also the opportunity to meet a man who will love you so much that you are the only one for him.
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He loves you for who you are. Does not inspire complexes about a small breast or excess weight, but admires your miniature figure or your curvaceous. In addition, he loves you not only for your appearance, but also loves your character. Likes to see you natural, without makeup, and also when you wake up with disheveled hair. (Just do not abuse it.)
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You just feel that he loves you. If so, you do not need any words, and no other confirmations. You just feel loved and have no doubt about it. But, if that were the case, you would not read this article, right?
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Therefore, you can use another method based on intuition. Just ask him a direct question whether he loves you. The main thing is not his answer, but how he behaves. Does he look away, does he strain, makes the question a joke, or grins, how honest he is, etc. True, this method has one drawback: men really do not like this question. They are very annoying when a woman constantly asks "do you love me?" We can say that in women they are most annoyed by just that. If you want to know the answer to your question, ask. But only once.
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You can find out if he loves you by actions. Love has many definitions, because each person loves in his own way. But still, when a man loves, he takes care, tenderness, supports you and shows attention to you. This is a more sure sign than words. "If you want to know a person, look at his actions." The only “but”: if this is not the case, do not blame the man for not paying attention to you. Moreover, you should not demand from the man any actions in relation to you. It's useless. If this is not, then no, you cannot force a man to love with reproaches and demands. Just draw conclusions for yourself.
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Just like "a friend is known in distress, " a person is known in an extreme situation. Of course, you should not arrange checks and create such a situation. But if you - God forbid, of course - find yourself in a difficult life situation, only then can you see if the man really loves. Whether it hides for the time being, whether it will throw in difficult times or substitute its strong and reliable shoulder.
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If a man loves, he will certainly show what you mean to him, and will not go away from the answer. If a man loves, he will not disappear and reappear, he will always be there, and you will feel that you are not alone. If a man loves, he does not force a woman to live in hopes, but will live in hopes himself.
Useful advice
A loving man always wants a child from his beloved woman. If a man truly loves, and does not adore himself in his love for a woman, he will take the last off himself, sell his favorite car, plow in three jobs from dawn to dawn, but make his beloved happy and I didn’t need opportunities.
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