Teenagers spend a lot of time at school. It is only natural that in addition to studying, personal relations are on the agenda and sympathies arise. How to learn to be interesting to everyone and like your classmates?
Instruction manual
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Impeccable appearance. The first impression is created in appearance and is an important indicator of perception of the person. Dress always neatly and tastefully, carefully select accessories. Make sure your clothing style matches the situation.
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Learn the secrets of communication. A closed man, immersed in his own world, is unlikely to cause a desire to share his meditation. A constantly serious look is also not the best way to charm. Actively participate in extracurricular activities, show interest in the achievements of classmates. Do not get hung up on communication only with a select group of friends. Periodically find the opportunity to exchange a few words with all students in the class.
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Be friendly and smile. Friendliness and a smile always attract interest. Each person unconsciously reaches for a source of joy and happiness. If it’s not difficult for you to give a sincere compliment, to greet friendly even with a quiet person from the class, then you are already able to win the attention of many.
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Self-confidence inspires respect. Each person intuitively feels the self-esteem of the interlocutor. If you love yourself, know your strengths and calmly perceive shortcomings, then the people around you will consider you to be a self-sufficient person.
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Do not speak badly and do not humiliate. When someone starts to feel superior and offends the weak - from the outside it looks very not beautiful. The time will come, and there will be a more authoritative person on him, who will also publicly humiliate him. Only those who wish to intervene may not be there. Do not discuss the shortcomings of classmates behind them. The “deaf phone” will convey your reviews, but in a more unsightly form, and you will make an enemy for yourself.
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Have all your opinions. An integral feature of a leader is his own point of view and the ability to lead others around him. Do not fall under the influence of others. Learn to state your position, argue and give arguments. A person who always agrees quickly loses interest in himself.
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Engage in self-development. You need to know a lot and be able to be an interesting person for everyone. If a person is not able to maintain a conversation, and he has no achievements, then you should not dream of popularity. Epating a class with nose piercing or boorish behavior is the lot of the weak who are trying to somehow prove themselves. A strong personality develops its skills and is constantly striving to learn something new. Go in for sports and achieve high academic results. Tell interesting facts, often joke and learn to perceive trouble with humor.