If you are tired of being a passive person and giving the right to make decisions that are important to you to other people, then it's time to become an independent, strong personality. Move aside your desire to please and pliability and begin to satisfy your needs.
Instruction manual
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Learn to set clear goals for yourself and achieve them. Select a task and complete it. Be sure to do whatever you want. Gradually complicate your goals.
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Stop complaining and make yourself a loser. Be able to see the unpleasant situation on the other hand and talk about it with humor. To make it easier to live with adversity and change your attitude to life, watch comedies and read life-affirming books.
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Be mysterious. Do not discuss with people who are not members of your family your financial situation, health, and intimate details of life. If everyone knows everything about you, it will be easy to manipulate you. In the event that you create an aura of mystery, it will be easier for you to gain credibility in the team.
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Stay up to date with what is happening around. Stay tuned for news, fashion trends, electronic news releases. The more you know about the world in which you live, the easier it will be for you to adapt to its changes.
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Add confidence. Take care of your appearance and physical fitness. When you change your style to a more representative one, you will see how your attitude towards yourself begins to change. You will begin to hold on differently and even think.
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Do not allow yourself to be manipulated. Be able to recognize a person who is trying to impose his opinion on you. Do not fall for flattery and provocation.
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Attend personal growth training. A professional will help you gain confidence in your abilities and strengthen the desire to take life in your own hands. Read motivational literature and watch films in which heroes go against the system and achieve success.
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Learn to refuse. Do not go against your own will to please another person. There are many different ways to make it clear that this is not the best time to ask you a favor: from hints to a definite no. Don't be guilty about it, because you don't owe anything to anyone.