Incorrect, understanding of reality leads to disappointments, problems, grieves. To soberly assess life situations, you need to get rid of naivety. This quality is appropriate in childhood, but is in no way suitable for an independent and responsible person.
Instruction manual
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Overcome your fear of life. Perhaps naivety is your subconscious defense against adversity and the negative aspects of reality. Understand that you refuse to see problems, they will not disappear. An effective way to change personal circumstances for the better is to take action.
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Recognize your naivety. Understand the reasons for another failure. Do not blame only those around you, but be critical of your behavior. Imagine how events would develop if you acted as an adult.
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Get rid of the image of a little girl. If you choose naivety as a strategy of behavior with the opposite sex, most likely your actions are doomed to failure. Your image can attract a young man only at the stage of flirting. For a serious relationship, an adult man needs an independent, smart and adequate life partner.
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Understand that such a character trait as naivety can only touch others. If you want people to take you seriously, try to win your friendship and respect your opinion, you need to become a tougher, shrewd person. Only then will you become a full member of the team.
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Keep in mind that naivety can even be dangerous. Do not trust strangers, because some of them may use you for personal gain. Respect yourself and do not let others neglect your interests for the sake of profit.
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Listen to your intuition. Many years of life experience are accumulating in your subconscious. In difficult situations, your brain sends a signal what to do. Do not neglect this sensation, it can help you make the right choice.
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Learn. Learn to learn from your own and others' mistakes. Read classics that describe people and explore the motives of their actions. Watch films telling about the life of ordinary people, about their relationships. Carefully study others. Read some books on personality psychology. All of this will help you stop cheating.