The reasons for parting are different - moving to another city, quarrels, conflicts, divorce. Many people, even after breaking up, can’t break an invisible connection with a person, go to his photos or a page on social networks, call, write and ask to return.
There are different types of parting: someone breaks up to meet again later, but for someone, parting is the final decision. However, human nature is structured in such a way that forgetting the past can be very difficult, and sometimes impossible. And now, a person again and again turns to past relationships, unable to heal a bleeding wound in his heart. It is necessary to stop such torment as soon as possible and put a bullet in the relationship.
Parting after the conflict
If you once decided to end your relationship with a person forever - stick to your chosen position. Whatever your mood or condition, no matter how he asks to return, no matter how you like it - do not take a step back. Just make that decision at the very moment you decide to break off relations with him. It will be easier for both of you.
The reason for such a decision is usually a lie or betrayal, betrayal in a relationship. Such actions cannot be forgiven. Over time, the memory of them fades, the pain becomes dull, and I want to believe that the person has recovered, but in most cases this is an illusion. People do not change dramatically, it is better to understand this as clearly as possible, then there will be no new disappointments with this person.
Peaceful Parting
Realize the parting and accept it for yourself, worry once in your heart, then to remember this feeling with a touch of light sadness. Such advice is suitable for situations of peaceful separation, for example, when a friend leaves to live in another country. You can, of course, meet with him once a year on vacation or correspond by e-mail, but at heart you still realize that this is not the kind of communication that was before. You need to get used to such a separation, get used to thoughts about him. At the same time, it will be useful to remind yourself how good such a friend is in a new place, how he can realize his dreams. This is a great way to rejoice for a person and give him love even at a distance.