Responsibility is one of the most important social skills, and irresponsibility is one of the greatest vices. Like many other skills and abilities, responsibility must be developed, and if it is not, then educated.
Instruction manual
one
Recognize that responsibility is very important for life in society, as it can significantly improve your life and help you become a full-fledged author of your actions, decisions and your life.
2
Learn from mistakes, it doesn’t matter if they are their own or strangers. The main thing is to extract valuable experience from the defeats and develop the most worthy behaviors.
3
Ask yourself several times a day about what you could do at the moment and what opportunities you have for this. After that, think about what you should do right now to feel more responsible for your actions.
4
Each time, faced with difficult choices or troubles, think about what you would do if at that moment there would be a person next to you whom you trust and whom you love (mother, father, brother or sister, friend)? This will help to make the decision that will be the most correct.
5
Regularly write down on a piece of paper a few things that need to be done, but you absolutely do not want to do this. Also determine what the penalty will be for not fulfilling these cases. To make it easier, you can make a promise, for example, to your parents, boss or friend. As a punishment for not doing anything, you can, for example, pay them a certain amount.
6
Admit your mistakes and write them down daily. Also write down the reasons why you did not fulfill your obligations. For each of the errors, assign yourself additional tasks or a certain fee (it does not have to be financial expenses, for example, it can also be time that you can devote to good deeds). Do not forget to record your successes and achievements.
7
In the process of developing a feeling of what kind of situation in yourself, how much responsibility you need to take on.