Life, when any problems are solved for you, is easy and carefree. However, sooner or later, most young people understand that it is necessary to start an adult life. The decision to become an independent person is only the first step, after which you still have a lot to do.
Instruction manual
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Start accustoming your relatives to the idea that you are completely independent and able to live separately. Start small: take on some of the household duties. Most parents are ready to let the child go on an independent voyage only after they make sure that he does not starve to death, living alone. Listen to the advice of relatives and faithfully carry out all instructions. So you demonstrate your maturity and responsibility - qualities necessary for an adult.
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Learn to be responsible for your actions and words. An adult must be able to make well-considered decisions, and if he makes a mistake, be responsible for his mistakes. Evaluate yourself impartially: if you are not ready, it is better to postpone the start of an independent life, otherwise you have every chance to return home very quickly under the wing of caring parents.
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Use every chance to live an adult life. If your parents leave to rest for a week or two, call to stay and look after the apartment. Upon arrival, they should find cleanliness and order, well-fed and well-groomed pets, flowers watered in time, a refrigerator filled with food and a cooked festive dinner. If you don’t have the opportunity to live on your own for at least a short time, try to please your relatives more often with culinary masterpieces, self-cleaning, etc.
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If possible, try to get a job. Let it be low-paid and short-term, but you will take a big step forward, since the ability to earn money is the most important quality of an adult. Another sign by which you will be evaluated is how you spend your first earnings. Do it wisely: buy something you need for yourself or for your family.
Useful advice
Strive to take the initiative, solve your problems yourself, be an active young man. Broaden your horizons, study, acquire the skills you need for adulthood. So you will significantly bring the long-awaited day when you begin adulthood.