Uncertain people rarely succeed in life. To build a career and create a strong family, you need to be a brave and determined person. And do not be shy in talking to express your own opinion.
Instruction manual
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If you are shy about talking to strangers, look for the causes of self-doubt. Perhaps, once in your childhood a stranger offended you, you were scared, and this feeling was remembered for a lifetime. Analyze your past. Scroll through the situation again. Tell yourself that now you are a different person, strong and brave. And nobody can hurt you for the living. Especially in a normal conversation.
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Imagine that you have a conversation with a loved one whom you are not embarrassed. Imagine in your mind the dialogue, what words you would use, how long the communication would last. Find pleasant features in the person you are talking to. Refer to him as a good friend.
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If you are shy, do not use unfamiliar or unpronounceable words. You can get confused even more and be completely embarrassed. Speak a simple, understandable language.
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If you have a conversation on sensitive issues, try to replace pronounced words and phrases with streamlined ones. So it will be easier for you and the interlocutor.
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Not everyone is given the opportunity to be a great speaker. And not everyone needs it. Do not worry about the fact that you can’t always clearly express your thoughts. This will make you even more shy. Talking with the interlocutor, relax. Then the necessary phrases themselves come to mind.
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If you are shy about talking in real life, look for friends on the Internet. Not seeing the other person is much easier to start a conversation. And having learned better than friends on the forum, make an appointment. Talking with familiar opponents, you will learn the most important communication skills - openness and goodwill.
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If you can’t overcome shyness, sign up for a communication training. During the classes you will talk on various topics with other participants. An experienced instructor will point out your weaknesses during the dialogue, and tell you how to increase the ability for successful communication.