Sometimes some people wear masks, and then change them depending on the circumstances. Being themselves for such individuals is a real luxury, although they themselves have placed themselves in such conditions.
Instruction manual
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Be honest with yourself. Let while you pretend to someone, you want to seem better, more interesting, smarter than you are. But in front of you, do not be angry. Admit what you want, what matters to you, why you are doing one way or another, what feelings guide you, what emotions, fears you hide in your heart. Open yourself and it will be easier for you to find your own personality.
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Understand that pretending to other people makes no sense. Firstly, at a subconscious level, others can feel your insincerity. A hypocritical person can hardly count on someone's sympathy. Secondly, your idea of how other individuals want to see you may be erroneous. It turns out that you should not play any role in front of people, they may not appreciate it. Thirdly, remember that you live for your own sake, to enjoy the world, and not to meet someone else's expectations. Focus on yourself and stop focusing on other people's opinions about you.
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Become a brave man. Stop being afraid to show your true face. Do not think what people will say. The harmony that will come into your soul after you become yourself is valued much higher than the sympathy of other people. Some individuals fear that they themselves will not like what they get by throwing off their masks. To do this, you must accept yourself and love.
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Do not compare yourself with anyone. This is a bad and unconstructive habit, especially if this comparison is not in your favor. Remember that all people are different. In addition, in appearance, the ideal individual may have serious shortcomings, which you are not aware of. Therefore, do not create idols for yourself. Only one star can exist for you - you yourself.
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Reveal your talents, improve, develop your own abilities. Working on yourself will help you become an interesting, self-sufficient person. Then there will be no need to pretend to be someone. Indeed, when an individual moves towards his goals, lives in harmony with his needs, he feels inner harmony and reveals himself more and more fully to others and to himself.
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Do not do what you absolutely do not want. Acting against your own principles, beliefs and tastes, you break yourself. Do not step over your desires, your own opinion. Then you will have more opportunities to be yourself, and not do what others or circumstances require. Try to find an alternative in a difficult situation that allows you to stay true to your values.