We walk under God. This popular saying speaks as well as possible that both bad and good lie in wait for a person at every turn. And here such trifles as a social level and well-being do not matter. The loss of a relative is equally bitter for everyone, and the financial blow is painful for everyone, just the amount of loss, of course, is different. The trouble always comes unexpectedly and the main question is how to be ready for it, if nothing can be fixed?
Instruction manual
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First of all, it should be remembered that one of the most important components of the disaster is yourself, your feelings about what happened. Therefore, most importantly, pull yourself together. Try not to get depressed, break down on people close to you. Remember the simple arithmetic - the trouble consists of two components: the misfortune itself plus your experiences. Following this, you can significantly reduce the size of the disaster.
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Soberly assess the scale of misfortune that befell you. Estimate whether you are able to cope with it yourself or if you need the help of people. Of course, it is impossible to resurrect a deceased relative, but the funeral and commemoration, alas, cost money. Almost any trouble, sad as it may seem, has its own financial side and monetary value.
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Some people tend to dramatize the situation and exaggerate the size and significance of what happened, especially at a young age. “Whoever saw a little, cries a lot, ” the classic noted aptly. Quarrel with classmates, poor grades, anything. Here, the best way is to share with your older, not necessarily parents, with the person you respect. The main criterion is that a person should have more life experience than you.
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And most importantly, of course, no matter how paradoxical this sounds - you need to be an optimist, ready for anything. Starting a financial business, believe that you will succeed, but estimate in advance what will happen if you suddenly burn. Remembering to take care of your elderly parents, sometimes remember that everyone is mortal. Going into a new class, stay confident, but model the situation: "What will I do if I don't like this class."
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If you can’t cope with the misfortune on your own, have fallen into depression, bad thoughts comprehend you - turn to a psychologist for help. It is the specialist who will help you survive the disaster that has come.