Nothing can be achieved in life without self-confidence. It is faith in oneself that helps not to back down and find strength to move on. Self-confidence refers to acquired qualities of character, and not to innate. It’s rare that someone is so lucky that he does not suffer from complexes and does not disappoint with himself over time. Belief in oneself is formed due to character, personal qualities and hard work on oneself. Therefore, it depends only on you how quickly you develop self-confidence.
You will need
Willpower and desire.
Instruction manual
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Do not forget about your successes. Very often people focus not on their own achievements, but on what they failed to do. Of course, this is not bad if a person wants to correct the situation and achieve what he wants, but when this leads to a decrease in self-esteem and self-confidence, real problems begin. Therefore, as often as possible remember those successes that you can rightfully be proud of, or even better write them down on a piece of paper and read it in the morning before the start of the working day and at night before bedtime.
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Do not reproach yourself for failure. Having made a mistake, analyze what happened, correct what is in your power and move on. There is no point constantly remembering what happened. What happened is gone. It is more important not to repeat your own mistakes and learn to avoid making wrong decisions, but you are also not afraid to take responsibility. There are no perfect people in the world.
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Do not live in the past. Do not expect that everything will change tomorrow. Live today, here and now. The future has not come yet, and the past has disappeared beyond the horizon. If you constantly dream or think about how good it was before, you will not notice how life went. Nothing is more demoralizing than putting things off until tomorrow.
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Appreciate what you have. The greatest happiness of a person always remains the ability to enjoy what he has. It is not as easy as it might seem at first glance, but it is necessary for a full life. In addition, this will allow us not to make a mistake in choosing what I would like to get from this life. Indeed, sometimes people are chasing what they absolutely do not need.
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Do not let anyone humiliate yourself. Neither loved ones, nor friends, nor relatives have the right to criticize your personal qualities. You can criticize only the actions of others when they directly affect someone's interests. Therefore, do not confuse the desire to help you with advice and gross interference in your life. Although usually advice should be given only to those who ask for them.
note
When communicating with officials, operate the laws, remember your own rights and their duties. As soon as they try to put pressure on you, declare that they know better what to do, do not get lost, but immediately remind them of their own rights, the rights of a citizen and a person. It is very important to stop in time their attempts to crush you and make you back down. And for this, read the laws, because for a skillful conversation with civil servants it is necessary.