It’s good when everything in life turns out quickly and easily, but it also happens that one failure follows another, and their number is reflected more and more on your faith in yourself and your mood. Disturbing thoughts, despair and prolonged depression appear. Stop! Failure is not a sentence. You can live with them; moreover, you can use them for your own good. How? Find out now.
Imagine that your life is a tram slowly gliding along the rails of time. You must go to one of the stops to get what you want, but until you reach it, you just enjoy the road and look out the window. Why such a comparison? Everything is very simple. Learn to view your failures not as something terrible and crash of everything you only dreamed about, but just as the next stop of your tram. Yes, you’ve arrived somewhere, you don’t need to go out here, but you can be glad that you are moving towards the goal, and each subsequent stop brings you even closer to it. No need to think that you are stuck in place, think that what is happening is just a stage.
Failures can teach a lot. For example, the inventor of the bulb, Thomas Edison, made up to 200 unsuccessful attempts before coming up with the only correct way to use it. When asked what he thinks of his previous failures, he smiled and replied that he did not perceive this as 200 failures. He said that now he knows 200 ways of how to construct a light bulb is not necessary. Do the same. If you are unsuccessfully trying to make a souffle, shake it and learn from your mistakes. One day, everything will turn out perfectly for you, and you will have unique experience and knowledge. Learn from your mistakes.
Who told you, in general, that what is happening to you is a failure. Maybe you were just lucky that you did not achieve what you were striving for. The title of "Miss World" can be not only honorable, but also dangerous for health and life, and the treasured position of chief accountant will not always become a tidbit for its owner. Look at things from the other side, it is quite possible that you did not get what you wanted, because it is simply not yours.
Whatever you do, learn to accept your failures and not despair. Sooner or later, you will succeed, because it is unsuccessful attempts that make us stronger, train the will to win and temper the spirit. Learn to relate to everything philosophically and tune in to victory, only then failure from unbearable sorrows will turn into only an insignificant stage on your life path.