How to correctly and competently build relationships with the mother of your beloved and prevent obvious mistakes and mistakes?
Let her talk
No mother in the world will miss the opportunity to tell in detail everything about her children. Give this chance to the mother in law, and suddenly get a number of valuable points. Let them show family photo albums, narrate details from the childhood of your dear man.
Give her a sense of value
If you constantly show that you do not need her advice and wisdom, you will successfully find a stubborn enemy. Nothing will happen if you ask her recipe for family sauce, let her make dessert for lunch, and ask why her "flowers grow so well."
Talk to her
This tactic should be handled carefully, as with explosive material. Talk to your mother-in-law and tell each other funny stories about her son / your husband. Avoid, however, slander or too many complaints. Mothers tend to perceive complaints about their children personally and see them as a sign that they have not raised them well.
Set boundaries
Beware of excessive friendships and try to keep your relationship within reasonable limits. If you start contacting her on “you”, give me the key to your apartment so that she can come at any time without prior notice, it will be very difficult for you to return the lost positions.
Follow the rules
Follow the simple principle that your rules apply in your home, and in turn, in the territory of the mother-in-law, observe her habits. Keep your comments and views on her style of cooking, behavior, or anything else.
