Often it is required to achieve the attention of a certain person, both for personal and for business purposes. In this case, not only attraction plays a decisive role, but also a trusting relationship with a particular person. In order to achieve this result, and not in the short, but in the long term, it is necessary to follow a number of principles.
Instruction manual
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Carefully analyze the person you want to attract. Learn his manners, habits, social circle. Find any information that will help you make his detailed psychological portrait.
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Find out the interests of the person. If you have a specific reason for which you want to attract this or that person, you need to interest him using another sphere of activity. For example, if you need a certain person as a business partner, you can quite meet him on the tennis court, to which he constantly goes.
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Get him interested. Find those advantages that may be useful to him in you and tell him about them in an unobtrusive way. The most important thing is not to talk about utility, he must understand it himself. Tell him about what he is in urgent need of now or what he needs in principle, and make a small attachment in yourself.
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Communicate with him simply, without any unnecessary secret thoughts. It is simplicity that you can enter into the greatest trust than if you try to paint all your advantages.
Useful advice
Do not rush things, let his head work freely, sooner or later the circuit will work. The main thing is to behave naturally.