Making a decision on your own means taking responsibility. It does not matter for what reason this need arose. The main thing is to take this matter seriously and not succumb to pressure from the outside.
Instruction manual
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Try to stay alone for a short while. Often, others, wanting to help, create chaos in their thoughts. After all, it seems to everyone that it is he who expresses the only true opinion. After listening to dozens of such correct ideas, there is a risk of becoming confused and losing the ability to think clearly. Moreover, if you know that strength of character is not your dignity. Although a collective discussion of the problem can lead to confusion and the most confident person. So, in order to weigh the pros and cons and draw the conclusions you need, you need to retire. This will help to come to a decision without any intervention.
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Think about the situation well. Depending on the seriousness of the case, you can think for a couple of minutes, hours or even days. But if possible, take your time. Haste makes you close your eyes to some doubts. It is they who in the future can become a real torment for you and not let you forget about the question: "Did I do the right thing?" You do not need to create the illusion that by “pointing your finger at the sky”, you can quickly and easily get rid of the problem.
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Remember if similar circumstances occurred in your life before. Sometimes the experience of the past can be used in the present. Of course, there is no need to act according to the pattern. Just look at what has already been done, from the side. Such a vision will provide an opportunity to consider the situation objectively.
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Listen to the voice of reason. Feelings, emotions, experiences need to be removed. Usually they force to rush from side to side, going to extremes. Such behavior will lead to absolute failure. Therefore, no matter how difficult it may seem, you will have to forget about the emotional "storms". Only “cold” reasoning will help to make the right, absolutely independent, decision.