It is also necessary to be able to swear … It is possible to quarrel with a person in such a way that, despite forgiveness, there will no longer be former communication. The ability to maintain harmonious relationships is a difficult science, which has to be studied all my life.
You even need to be able to swear properly, especially when it comes to conflicts between friends and relatives. These people are of great importance in the life of any person. If you do not follow your own words in the heat of a quarrel, then you can say too much and offend a person very much. And people of resentment, of course, can forgive, but they will remember for a long time and there will be no previous communication. Therefore, during a conflict, the following principles must be adhered to.
- Do not go to extremes. You should not "make an elephant out of a fly." Calm down, perhaps you are exaggerating everything too much, and the problem is not worth a quarrel.
- Follow the words. Try to match the words. The more painfully emotionally you strike an interlocutor, the harder you get in return. So in a relationship, a crack may appear, which will only grow over time. Be careful.
- Try to give constructive arguments. In a calm and even tone, tell your partner all the complaints, backing them up with arguments. Therefore, a clarification of the relationship must be well considered.
- Try to keep calm. Do not break into a cry. The negative emotions that you put into your voice, like cold water, will pour over your interlocutor and cause a negative response.
Of course, in the heat of the conflict, I want to answer the offender so that you have the last word. However, it may happen that this "word" can greatly spoil all relationships, and indeed be the last.