People who need to communicate effectively with other people need authority. He is needed to be listened to and followed by your instructions. Raising credibility is just as important as getting a good education.
You will need
- 1. Work on yourself
- 2. An example of an authoritative person
Instruction manual
one
Recognize that you can infect other people with your mood. In the same way, you are able to change greatly under the influence of another person with whom you often communicate. Therefore, try to always be in the right mood. At least then, when you need to convince another person of something or make a deal. Learn to manage your emotions also because they are reflected in your body. In addition, negative emotions are bad for your health.
2
Work on your voice, movements, posture, gait, facial expressions and gestures. Since ancient times, these things speak more about a person than his words. Body language gives other people all the most important information about you: you are confident in yourself or not, you are interested in another person or not, whether you know what you are talking about or not. Work on yourself in front of the mirror. Invent and transmit gestures, movements, various thoughts. Do not forget about the walk. It should correspond to different life situations: for a walk in the park, it is one, for the office - another, etc. Also experiment on your voice. If you feel that it does not affect people, try playing with your voice. Rehearse at home by recording yourself on a voice recorder.
3
Associate yourself with reputable people. It doesn’t matter if they exist in reality or only in your imagination. Get to know such people and watch them. You will definitely learn from them how to behave in order to increase their authority. Absorb this energy when you are near them.
