A rare person can say that he does not think about money at all. Everyone needs money. A vow of poverty is given by a monk, but not a monastery. And since the topic of money is so relevant for everyone, then you need to relate to it correctly.
Instruction manual
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Feel free to talk about money, count them. Think of them as a completely normal topic. When gathering for a friendly party, discuss in advance who will pay for what. Girls after a date in a cafe should not be shy to pay for themselves if they want to feel independent. Do not hesitate to talk about money with your boss: remind about additional payments for one or another, sorry about the increase in wage rates. When applying for a job, feel free to put the desired amount in the resume and discuss the size of your salary and estimated allowances.
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Do not focus only on the accumulation of money or only on the process of buying any goods. Remember that money can be directed to something that will bring you positive emotions, new impressions, bring happiness or enrich you spiritually. For example, to go on an exotic trip, to go on excursions or in a museum, to give relatives and friends a dream. All this will help turn the process of making money from a routine into a pleasure.
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Do not try to make all the money in life. The more you get, the more you spend. There is always not enough money. Remember that in life there are such concepts as health, love, happiness. They can not be bought for any amount. A person who deliberately deprives himself of all this risks living a gray, boring life, without vivid memories and impressions.
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Do not be ashamed of poverty if you cannot afford what neighbors can do. If you can not go with friends and girlfriends to a restaurant. If you can’t give your relatives a pretty expensive present for the holiday. Learn not to be shy about your financial situation, live within your means, dream of wealth and make your dreams come true. Learn to admit that you are saving or experiencing a lack of funds. Feel free to accept expensive gifts from relatives and friends, even if you don’t give them yourself.
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Do not envy those who are richer than you. Even those who are fabulously rich. Wealthy people have their own problems: fear for their safety, distrust of people, betrayal, unflattering criticism, fear of losing a business and going broke. Appreciate what is already available. Unlike many, perhaps you have an interesting job, beloved people, wonderful children, a cozy house, real friends, interesting hobbies.
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Be easier. A lot of people spend on expensive suits and shoes, which are not ashamed to go on a visit or to a business meeting, on going to a restaurant with important people, on a taxi. In other words, in order to look wealthier in the eyes of others. In fact, only 10% of those around are able to evaluate the brand of clothing or to focus on what you drive. Feel free to budget stores, sales. Instead of expensive gifts to the chef, bake a cake with your own hands, present a scarf or gloves.