How to find out that a person is lying

How to find out that a person is lying
How to find out that a person is lying

Video: 5 Foolproof Ways to Spot a Liar 2024, June

Video: 5 Foolproof Ways to Spot a Liar 2024, June
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There are many situations where we just need to know if a person is sincere or lies. This is important not only in everyday communication, but also in business negotiations, important meetings, interviewing the employer with potential employees.

Instruction manual

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Observe the following physiological symptoms:

The interlocutor nervously coughs, his pupils are narrowed. He suddenly begins to yawn, blink, or stutter. The color of his face changes (turns red, spots or turns pale). The man was sweaty, his voice was trembling, his hands were covered with "goose bumps." The timbre of his voice and speed of speech changed.

All this may indicate that a person is lying to you.

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Next, pay attention to his facial expressions and gestures.

The interlocutor avoids your gaze. His movements are fussy and unnatural: he cannot sit still, touches his hair, face, tugs at his clothes, shakes off non-existent dust. A man rubs his hands, nervously clicks his fingers, bites his lips, takes unnecessary items and plays with them (twirls a pen, sorts out foxes of paper). He constantly smokes, shakes his leg, can not cope with trembling.

See these signs - you know, maybe you are lying.

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Now listen to how and what the interlocutor tells you

He persistently convinces you of his honesty, constantly emphasizes that he “speaks the truth and only the truth”, while using the phrases:

-I give my hand for clipping

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- Honestly, I do not

-I swear on my health

A person does not answer directly, to the question posed, but bothers, speaks evasively, makes hints. Adds unnecessary and irrelevant details to your answers. In his speech, he makes a large number of stupid grammar and syntactical errors. He speaks quickly, without pausing in his speech, "chattering."

This is exactly how your interlocutor behaves, be on the alert - maybe he is lying.

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And the last thing, before you write a person into deceivers, look at him in everyday life. Maybe he always behaves this way, and all the "symptoms of lies" that you discovered are the result of his physiology or poor education.