Narcissus is figuratively called a narcissistic, selfish person who has a very high opinion of himself. Getting along with him is not an easy task, but with love and patience, it is quite real.
Instruction manual
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According to ancient Greek myth, once a handsome young man Narcissus saw his reflection in a forest stream and it seemed to him indescribably beautiful. The young man literally fell in love with himself, lost peace and sleep. He could not take his eyes off his own face, reflected in the water. The result of the myth is sad: Narcissus died, and at the place of his death a beautiful flower blossomed, named after him.
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A narcissist man needs admiration, worship, like a flower of the same name - in sunlight and watering. He needs to constantly feel in the spotlight. Without receiving this, he will suffer, be angry, take out a bad mood on others. But the narcissist is able to get even more angry if he suspects that the words of approval, admiration are insincere. Therefore, the partner of such a person will have to show patience, condescension, as well as outstanding acting skills. Praise should sound convincing.
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To argue with the daffodil is a thankless and almost hopeless affair. After all, he either sincerely considers himself the highest authority in any matter, or is too proud and complacent to admit his own wrong. Therefore, a beloved person who wants to insist on his own should not engage in bickering with a daffodil, but skillfully lead him to the idea that he himself wants to do just that.
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It is necessary to carefully study the habits, tastes of the narcissus, so as not to cause conflict situations. Since any actions or words of a partner that run counter to his tastes and habits, the narcissist is not only able to elevate to the rank of universal tragedy, but also sees this as a manifestation of demonstrative disrespect for him. With all the ensuing consequences, for example, reproaches, quarrels.
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Narcissus does not tolerate criticism at all, even the most cautious, delicate and fair. After all, he considers himself a model of perfection, an ideal, and can an ideal be mistaken in something? Therefore, the partner of the narcissus should leave thoughts about how to somehow influence him, change, re-educate. You should either come to terms with its shortcomings, or part decisively and quickly.
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In a word, living with a daffodil is not an easy job and a very dubious pleasure. But it is not for nothing that it is said that love works miracles. If a partner is satisfied with such a loved one, narcissistic, selfish and very vulnerable, then he sees in him advantages, not disadvantages.