Very often you can hear the phrase: "Nobody loves me, everyone treats me badly." But do you love yourself? Just answer honestly to this question. Do you often criticize yourself? Do you like your reflection in the mirror? Do you approve of yourself in all your actions? Now think about your answers.
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Start pampering yourself. Make yourself a new hairstyle. Go to the beauty salon. Or arrange a beauty salon at home. Make yourself a manicure. Take a bath with foam or rose petals. Light candles, pour wine or champagne. And just relax. This is the first step towards self-love.
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Watch your appearance. If you have the habit of going to the store in stretched sweatpants, get rid of it urgently. Of course, some women have a different opinion, saying: "And for whom I will dress beautifully"? And you start to dress for yourself. Stop being lazy and start choosing clothes more carefully (for work, cultural events and holidays). Reluctance to be painted also refers to appearance. This does not mean that you need to do evening makeup before going to the store. A protective face cream, a little mascara and a transparent shine will be enough. Soon you will like the attention that you will be bestowed everywhere and always.
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Give yourself gifts. Stop saving on yourself beloved. Buy yourself some unnecessary thing that you liked. Even if it just rolls around, buy it if you really want to.
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Praise yourself more often. Something happened, say to yourself: "Well done!" And if something didn’t succeed, that's okay. It will turn out next time. The main thing is not to criticize yourself. There are people who will do this for you. Do not try to be perfect, there are no perfect people. Just do what you want (within the law, of course) and what you like.
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Remember the positive statements. Stand in front of the mirror and say to yourself: "I love myself. I am the best, the most beautiful. I always succeed." Or come up with an affirmation yourself and repeat it every day. Even if you do not believe in the power of words, at least try. And you will see how positive statements will change your life for the better.
Get started with all these tips right now. Your life will begin to change for the better only when you want it. It all depends on your thoughts. Love yourself now and the world will respond the same.