The number of single-parent families is growing every year in Russia. The main problem that these families are experiencing is the child’s rejection of the new partner of his parent.
The union of two families also means the union of their values and life guidelines. Very often, children do not accept other people's rules of life, under which they have to re-adapt. For this reason, a large number of psychological conflicts arise.
To minimize the difficulties of family life, try not to introduce drastic changes into the life of someone else's family. Do not put yourself in the position of a new mother or father of a child. It is very difficult to get a friendly arrangement of children, especially if the child is in his teens.
Do not interrupt the child’s communication with his biological parent. Disruption of communication can become a cause of depression, stress, and aggressive behavior for a child. Adhere to the same front with the true parents of the child in matters of education.
Share your concerns with your child. Show that you are the same person as everyone else. Do not try to avoid the upcoming divorce. If the child is interested in family issues, then tell him everything as it is.
Try to create new traditions for your family. At first, encourage your child more often. Take him to the zoo, to the movies, or anywhere else. Show that you are really pleased and interested in spending time with him.