“You can twist the rope out of it!” - this is what they usually say about a weak-willed, indecisive man with a soft character. But sometimes there are completely paradoxical at first glance cases. A man with a steel, unbending will, a very powerful, born leader. Subordinates obediently obey him. And at the same time, his wife or lover turns them around, as a henpecked henpecked. And those around them either shrug their shoulders in complete bewilderment: “There are miracles!” Or whisper cautiously: “Not otherwise, bewitched.” So how to help such a man? How to rid him of love addiction?
Instruction manual
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Love dependence is the name of this phenomenon. It is very common in both men and women, but oddly enough, it is still relatively little studied. It sometimes acts so strongly and for a long time that some doctors compare it with drug addiction. It truly seems to a person that he is passionately in love, but in fact he is sick.
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First of all, relatives and friends should clearly understand that this is precisely a disease! That a man who has fallen into the net of such a fateful woman, who has become ill with addiction, is no longer able to appreciate a modest, respectable woman who could become a beautiful wife and mother.
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He now constantly needs scenes on the verge of tantrums, violent quarrels ending in an equally furious "reconciliation" in bed, suffering, the pangs of jealousy. He will not be able to live a calm, measured life. He must be treated!
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At any cost, whatever arguments, arguments, persuade the man to appear to be good specialists: psychologists and sexopathologists. Since the treatment in such cases, as a rule, is complex - and should be carried out in two directions at once.
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Most psychologists are inclined to believe that people with low self-esteem fall in love, the reasons for which are rooted in an unhealthy home atmosphere and lack of parental love during their childhood. Therefore, treatment should consist in self-hypnosis techniques that increase self-esteem, and, if necessary, in psychotherapy.
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Sexopathologists are inclined to see the cause in sexual dependence. Like, such a passion usually embraces a man with a weak sexual "constitution", on the path of which a woman suddenly met, who magically transformed her. Only with her does he feel like a full-fledged man, and therefore is panicky afraid of losing her. Thus, in their opinion, the solution to the problem is to restore the full sexual function of men, medication and psychotherapeutic treatment.
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Begin to show interest in her creams and rubbing, asking what tool for hair removal is more effective and gentle to get rid of this disgusting vegetation on the legs. Let her take you by surprise, trying on something from lingerie. As you can see, it is not at all necessary to adopt the rather primitive experience of Bluebeard in order to get rid of a boring woman.
Useful advice
Neither call nor care, nor any signs of attention. Constantly notice her cons. Oh, how do we girls do not like this. Constantly argue with her. Start publicly interested in other women. More secrets. Be a bore. A very evil method, how to get rid of a girl, is simply to leave her not to call, not to write, to disappear. At her birthday, enter into an argument with everyone.