Once again about the readiness of young people for marriage

Everyone sooner or later thinks about marriage. Creating a family is a complex process. To be called a family is not enough just to stamp the passport, because the main thing in the family is respect and mutual understanding, and not passion and love, as many people think.

Of course, without love, too, a strong family hearth will not work, but mutual understanding and trust are the main things on which strong relationships are held unbreakable by the hardships of many years of life and routine.

When entering the teenage period, the comprehension of new opportunities begins, a sense of maturity appears and the desire to make decisions independently. Unfortunately, it was during this period that many parents lose contact with their children.

Due to hormonal changes, adolescents behave aggressively, inconsistently, do not want to listen to the elders' instructions, which seem tedious to them. They think that no one understands them. They find companies of interest, communicate, meet and, most dangerous, fall in love … That is when real adult problems can begin. At a young age, relationships seem so easy without problems, and only parents interfere with being together, as it seems to many in love.

Time passes and, taking advantage of all the delights of adulthood, a carefree time comes to an end, with the advent of children, everything changes. Now, two once carefree, rested and endlessly in love people face great tests - responsibility … Responsibility for their children, financial situation, housing problems, life, and much more.

It was at this time that real feelings and willingness to create a family were manifested. Often young newlyweds simply can not cope with the pressure of events and all love is blown away by the wind.

To avoid this, you need to know a few rules. Time. All human qualities manifest with time;

Hormones. They affect our attitude to people, they wear pink glasses and hide flaws, the feeling of love passes, and there are real feelings that can not be compared with fleeting passion.

A responsibility. Before you start a family, you need to learn how to make decisions and act, feeling the severity of responsibility for yourself and your actions. It is necessary to understand that the family is first of all unity with the second half, understanding of each other and respect.