Where do dreams lead? What do you get as a result, after many months of fantasy thinking? Optimistic people believe that thought can materialize, and sooner or later fantasies will turn into reality. Pessimists are of the opinion that dreams are just a brain trick that plunges into an illusory picture created by the two of you together. In total, a person receives a charge of positive energy.
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If we analyze the problem of fantasies more deeply, we can safely say that in this way a person unconsciously creates an ideal for himself - a life partner, child, home, environment. Indeed, when you immerse yourself in dreams, the brain works completely at ease, giving you as if pre-prepared pictures and images.
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Try structuring your fantasies to draw a real portrait of an ideal person or an ideal home. Take a piece of paper and divide it into three parts. A familiar trick? Maybe. Everything perfect is simple!
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In the first half, you will write in a column of a person’s quality, all that you want to see ideally. In the second column write what is positive you see in each of the words listed in the first column. In the third column, fill in the negative points regarding each quality of the first column. Approach this event meaningfully and pass each of the qualities through yourself. The characteristic should be objective.
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For example, imagine a handsome man. In the positive column can go such a description as: it's nice to be with a handsome man, everyone is jealous, turn around. It is possible to write in the negative: the constant intrusive attention on the part of women, I look against his background as an ugly duckling, he is engaged in narcissism.
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At the end of the work, analyze everything written and think carefully about what features you will not be able to share under any circumstances. It is important to really realize that even if you want your life partner to be beautiful, but you understand that you cannot cope with jealousy, feel free to cross out this characteristic. This is not your ideal.
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This method of creating an ideal is as practical as possible, which is based on self-awareness and structuring of thoughts. Similarly, it can be applied as part of planning a new color scheme for the interior and other things that you want to bring to the standard.