It is nice to meet someone who is able to be polite, interesting and a good conversationalist. Such people always stand out from everyone else. It will not necessarily be a person who is outwardly attractive or handsome. Indeed, in order to win the favor of others and achieve success in any field, appearance alone is not enough. It happens that a completely ordinary person, thanks to the ability to establish contacts and possessing the gift of eloquence, is able to achieve great success.
In the world of information technology, with various means of communication, people pay very little attention to communicating with each other personally, without the use of gadgets. In fact, they simply do not imagine what effect the said phrase can have on the interlocutor in time or just a polite and interesting conversation.
There are some simple tips, guided by which, you can learn the rules of communication with others.
1. You need to pay attention to your own speech. It should not be fast, but measured, clear and understandable. The volume of the voice should correspond to the situation in which communication takes place. You do not need to talk too quietly or go on a cry, otherwise the interlocutors may get bored with the conversation or they may simply be frightened.
2. When meeting a new person, you need to be considerate and polite. You can start a conversation with common topics, gradually figuring out his interests. So you can find out if there are common interests and talk about what is most important without discomfort.
3. In almost any situation that develops during a conversation, you need to remain calm, even if the interlocutor is annoyed and begins to openly show his dissatisfaction with something. It is better to gently and correctly advise you not to get annoyed, and if he continues to insist on his own, then just postpone the conversation.
4. With regard to internal control in communication, you should try not to use jargon, rude expressions and words that are parasites in speech. To enrich your own speech, you can read more classical literature, listen to or watch the trainings of famous psychologists who will tell you in which situation and how to apply this or that word correctly.
A good interlocutor always has more opportunities to prove himself in various fields of activity, for example, to find a worthy position, to join a team or to meet interesting people.