Communication is an integral part of people's lives. Therefore, it is so important to strive to ensure that any conversation brings pleasure. A dialogue is pleasant only on topics of interest and with a good conversationalist.
Instruction manual
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Watch your speech. She must be polite and competent. Exclude parasitic words and abusive language. Control your tone and speed of pronunciation. Read more, replenish your vocabulary, learn to correctly formulate your thoughts. Broaden your horizons, engage in self-education, keep abreast of the news.
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Listen carefully to your interlocutor. Delving into the essence of his phrases, you must understand what is at stake. Insert small remarks periodically, nod to show your participation, but do not unnecessarily interrupt his monologue. Encourage the interlocutor with phrases such as "I understand, " "continue, " "yes, yes." Do not rush to express your opinion until your interlocutor has agreed, do not make final conclusions for him. Try to remember at least some of the details of your conversation, and during the next meeting, mention the details of the last conversation.
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Look at the person you are talking to. Be friendly and smiling. Do not be distracted during a conversation - do not read, do not look out the window or watch, do not talk on the phone.
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Start the conversation with a compliment, but be sincere. Try to find common conversation topics with the person that interest the two of you. Avoid contentious situations. For example, talk about politics, nationality, religion. Take an interest in the family affairs of the interlocutor, his success at work. But do not be too intrusive.
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Pay attention to body language. Your hands should not be crossed. Keep straight, look straight. Do not show your impatience. During the conversation, control your emotions.
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Do not repeat. Do not tell several times the same stories from life, strangers or your jokes.
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Thank the person at the end of the conversation. Try to leave him in a good mood so that he is pleased with the communication with you and wants to meet again.