Family life does not consist of moments of joy, love, and complete understanding. There are situations when spouses cannot restrain their emotions or parents and children turn to screaming and insults.
Sometimes from the lips of loving spouses, parents and children, brothers and sisters such words and insults break out that they could not say to unfamiliar people. For some reason, in some situations, the closest and family gets more nasty things than colleagues and friends.
Hope for forgiveness
Many factors can negatively affect a person. Life troubles, problems at work, conflicts with friends make them more and more irritable during the day. And in the evening, when fatigue is added to stress, the individual breaks down on those who seem to need to be cherished and cherished - on family and friends.
Some husbands and wives, not embarrassed, say nasty things to their faithful because they are sure they will forgive them in the future. There is no direct calculation. But in the subconscious of the spouse, there may be a conviction that in any case their hysteria will pass almost with impunity.
Such people know that they are loved, and use it. At some point, they can cross the line and irrevocably ruin relations with a loved one.
But there is still patience, love and a desire to be a family, quarrels, insults and bickering can continue.
High requirements
Sometimes people throw out a lot of negativity on relatives, because they make excessive demands on them. Instead of accepting a loved one as he is, such individuals seek to remake him and create an ideal.
In such cases, people react too sharply to the shortcomings and mistakes of their beloved people, they are very indignant and cannot control their own emotions. Therefore, people are ready to forgive many things to friends, colleagues and acquaintances.
If not so close individuals behave differently from what is expected of them, this does not cause such a reaction as the misconduct of a loved one.